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Sunday, July 22, 2012

I AM MAD!

I thought a lot before posting about that subject. I didn't feel the need to do it. Such an insignifiant little man didn't deserve any attention. He insulted me numerous time and I couldn't care less.
So what changed?
He made a post that I couldn't just ignore, even if he deleted it afterwards (too coward to keep it on his wall I suppose...)
But let me name him... Matthew Darringer. The so-called "professional psychologist". I'm scared when I think about his patients. He couldn't tell right from wrong if it bites him in the face.
So let me correct some of his assertions first.

On his blog, he accused me, and I quote: "She was in competition with Sharita Lira whom she saw as a predator and hated with a passion, and then boom! They had a mutual "I love you" session and it was all cozy between them."
Let me show you what he said to me about Sharita at that time, and know that I never answer this message:


Now correct me if I'm wrong, but HE was the one who saw her as a predator. So he just put words in my mouth....

Then, he said: "Jade, of course, wanted me to post nudes of myself to her group ostensibly because I am good looking and well endowed, but more likely as a way to blackmail." 
I would love to see the proof of that. I read all the conversations we had, and couldn't find it anywhere. I never asked to see him naked. Nope, nowhere. And what about him saying that he's good looking and well endowed... God, he's a real narcissic!!!

He also accused me of not being real... Let's remind him another one of our conversation, shall we??


Funny, isn't it????


And now, the reason why I wrote this post....
It's about what he said about a friend of mine. A dear friend, who was the most loving and caring person I've met on Facebook.
This friend passed away two days ago after a long illness. Me and some others were "with" him through Facebook on his last night on earth. He knew he was dying and we gathered to help him make the big jump.
When he died, all of us were devastated.
But to read the morning after what this... excuse of a human being wrote.... I just can't think of anything strong enough to explain how we all felt. But I'll let you be the judge...




Did he realized he went way too far with that post? Or was he too coward to assumed it? He deleted it. But not before a lot of persons saw it. And none "liked" his post, when usually he has a few fans who enjoyed his bashing. But not this time. Nobody was willing to engage in bashing a man that while not everyone knew personally, they knew of him and that he was most known for leaving smiles and respect where ever he went...

So here I am, doing what I swore I'd never do... giving him some attention. But I couldn't just sit and do nothing.

There Matthew Darringer! Enjoy your celebrity, it won't last!!
 

19 comments:

  1. The attack on Talon and Tom went too damned far. Just too damned far. To besmirch a dead man and do so with the intent to hurt others... Wow. It's just sickening. My heart aches for Tom.

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  2. thank you Jade---thank you for being such a fine person.

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  3. I spoke to Tom for quite a while last night and he showed me this. I am without words. This man must be stopped.

    There is one reason and one reason only he puts up his posts and then takes them down. So you cannot report him to facebook because there is no evidence on his timeline. Hopefully screencaps like this one will get him booted off the site forever.

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  4. 15 minutes of fame and a lifetime of anguish is what he will see. What he's said and done is inexcusable, malicious and hateful. My heart aches for those he's attacked and for those he is still attacking.

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  5. Now that is messed up in a way that is just plain disgusting. My heart goes out to Tom and I truly hope this Matthew Darringer fellow gets to experience devastation in his own life and finds himself surrounded by uncaring bastards like himself so that he can get a taste of his own bloody medicine.

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  6. It makes my heart hurt every time I see it. I can't imagine what Talon's sister and Tom must be feeling over this mess.

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  7. Matt is a piece of shit, plain and simple. I don't believe a word he has said about himself. He's a bully. A nobody. I use to pity him, but that has passed.

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  8. He's an evil little man and I hope karma has it in for him in spades!

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  9. I am in pain here, that's how I am. I'm hurt. I let one person hurt me through the hugs of a hundred. And for his friends, and not-so-long-ago friends who were just attacked by him, YOU empowered him to hate and hurt me. So thanks to those who REALLY supported me. And I forgive those who didn't.

    Some of you here who remained MD's friend despite being told by REAL friends the truth - YOU empowered him to hate and hurt me. Talon was a good person before he died and he is still a good person, he never deserved the attacks.

    I don't care what this man says about me. I DO care that he tries to sh*t on Talon's memory. Thank you to all my friends, and his, who cared about us the whole way through this difficult journey. I know who you are, and you are loved.

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    1. You are loved too Tom, never forget that <3

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    2. ::fierce hugs:: Jade is right. You *are* loved. Loved and adored. I think I can speak for all of us when I say we are with you. No matter who tries to tear us apart, we'll stand strong around you, and we'll make sure that Talon's memory is filled with the beauty you showed us - not the hateful ramblings of an insignificant.

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    3. Just a word here, until my writing partner told me about this guy and said he was a 'friend' on my facebook page, I'd never even heard of him. I have so many 'friends' on my page...and often we don't know everyone who sends requests. After I was informed about his activities, I immediately unfriended him. Damn, I'm sorry he was even on there, but he never interracted with me. We don't need that in this community.
      A little more respect and love would be nice.
      xx
      D.J. Manly

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    4. Don't worry DJ, he was on mine too and somehow went poof...

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    5. *hugs TomBear tight*
      Words are not enough. They will never be able to express the...anguish...I feel personally from his loss. I do not pretend to know what you are feeling, nor what you have felt all this time knowing what would come to pass.

      But I hope that if nothing else, especially with this...worthless excuse for a human trying to besmirch the name and memory of a wonderful man and bring you pain in the process, I hope you know that you are loved by many. You are thought of daily. And Tal's memory will shine on in every heart that he touched, just as your love for one another will.

      Thank you, Tom, for allowing everyone to see your love for one another. For sharing your love of him with us.
      With all my heart, I love you and I Thank you.
      Amy

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  10. Sounds like his wiener is so tiny he tries to make up for it with his mouth. There are better things to do with your mouth.

    Terry

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  11. Wow....Some people have no heart and no matter what you do you can't change that. It is really sad that in his time of pain and anguish this little punk had to go out of his way to make him feel worse. But Tom knows who his friends are and he knows Jade, that we are there for him no matter what he needs. For someone who claims to know other people's "Pathologies" he sure is an asshole when it comes to their feelings. But you know what, Tal wouldn't want us to hate him--that's the messed up part about it. Tal would want us to send this creep flowers and extend the hand of forgiveness to him. And as much as it PAINS me to even think of it, we have to do what Talon would have wanted. I have always been a rabid support of the GLBT community and recently I found myself doubting whether it was actually worth it. But I won't let people like this 'person' stop me from lending my support and my love. In fact, I am going to fight even harder to keep my support going.

    Tom, you know how I feel about you already so I don't even have to repeat it but I send love, gropes,hugs, kisses, flowers, light and positive thoughts your way.

    Love,
    REMMY DUCHENE

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